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Failure is Motivation !

What actually is failure ?? 

Failure is not the opposite of success but is the part of success or we can say failure is the key to success . 

                                                          
it all depends on us what we define failure but in a positive way . 

In our lives starting from the very first day we fail many times but we succeeded too . Just take an example of a child when he is learning to walk he stands he falls again and again but never gives up . 

Never give up is the the key to turn your failure into success . I know our society is not much helping they criticize you, demotivate you, bash you etc . They will not stop never ever BUT WHY ?? Because they fear .... FEAR OF WHAT ??

WHAT
IF 
I
FAIL ?
Fear to lose ,fear to fail, fear of having an opposition, fear of being criticized, fear of everything that you don't . 

You will be thinking but i fear and i have my insecurities too Right ?? Yes you are thinking . I'll say that you don't have that fear and insecurity to lose . BUT HOW can i say that . I can say this because .. i'll leave it to you think for a while ... YES THINK ! 
THINK! 
THINK !
THINK !
you got it right i can say this because you at least tried to do something . That day yes on that single day when you were trying you left all the fears and insecurities . So when you didn't care at that time about the people what they will say so why now ? 
The thing is how anyone can fail if he/she doesn't try . The one who try at least has a chance to fail . Not everything comes in the bed of roses and keep in mind the rose has thorns too. Success is not easy as it seems it is a Smile hiding all the pains .
Nothing happens if you fail you just try again 

BUT we can not take failure that easy too . Keep in mind that when you plan do anything put in all your efforts give your 100% and then leave it to GOD . 

I know failure hurts . 
  • You want to cry 
  • you feel depressed 
  • you start bashing yourselves 
  • you do every possible thing to destroy your ability to think . 
It's OK ! I know how it feels me too have failed but i tried and succeeded. It's OK to cry you are human you can cry when you are depressed . Cry a day 2 days 3 days give yourself sometime but not your life regretting. When you are done crying the first thing to do is stop listening to those people who demotivate , bash , criticize etc . GOD has given 2 ears it helps trust me it helps in these kind of situations . listen from one and let it go from the other don't let it travel to the brain in between . 
                                                    

Solution How to change Failure into success and Why Failure is motivation ?? 

Because it motivates you to do it again . This time with a little bit modifications needed.

Think what in the process was wrong that can be a possible reason for the loss. Don't think to much that you just go through the process again in your mind Just a thorough review, do some more research take advise from the relevant people . Trust me you will have success .

Please don't take advise from the people who don't even know the ABC of that field it will destroy you . I am not saying they can't help but only to those of same interest or field. Yes they can be of some moral support to you.

Don't take to many advises. this also is wrong many advises will not help they will lead to confusion. 
Stay motivated you can do it carry this banner always.
You can and you will crack the code . You will stand you will turn it into a great success . Nothing is impossible you just need to try.
 
Try try again don't lose hope . 

 The true failure is when you stop trying . 

So see ya trying . Hye you yes you reading good to see you trying again. 

hope to change the perspective  
Keep Smiling you will succeed


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